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A STOMACH FULL OF PRIVATE PULL-OVERS

CONFESSION:

I am triggered by the Macklemore/Lamar situation at the Grammys, but not for the reasons others seem to be.

I’ve had a stomach full of private pull-overs by “colleagues,” staff, board members, and students, all acknowledging “privately” that I had been “robbed,” “lied to,” “abused,” “put in an untenable position” (cold comfort). That’s the PRIVATE story.

Publicly, they’ve lauded their goodness (“we’re the best thing”) and cast conspiratorial whispers on whether I  ever was “the right one” or whether I had lost my mind (“I’m really worried about Dr. Valerie,” complete with “the look”). They’ve chided me if I even LOOKED as if I was going to acknowledge my own pain from trying to survive in a system that was killing me. “You’re trying to destroy us!” I was told. “You HAVE to bless us as you leave!” I was told. No, really.

Never mind that I was LITERALLY dying. Bleeding out of every orifice (I mean every: eyes, nose, ears, vagina, rectum and open sores) while laying in my vomit from violent convulsions because I had a migraine that was trying to take me out. I knew, one day, it was going to kill me. I was going to die. Someone would find my dog sitting near me, whimpering in the shadow of my cold corpse. It would take a couple of days because–for all the talk of community–I wouldn’t have been missed until the second or third class and then it would be to reprimand me, not to check on me. Laying on the floor in my basement, I knew that I wasn’t even a cog in the machine: I was the nuisance everyone wanted to just disappear. Or as one person said: “If you’re so miserable, why don’t you just leave?” [unspoken parenthetical: and while you’re at it, you’d better not tell people we worked at making you miserable and stood back sympathizing with students while they accused you of things later proven a lie. You’d better not tell people we started blaming you for the abuse you were taking].

I left, not because I didn’t feel “called” to that place. I left because I was going to die. And cold comfort that after all the attacks, the lies, the abuse, the neglect, the reneges on promises, the silencing that two board members should pull me aside, or in the case of a local pastor, take me to lunch to say: “you’re right. We didn’t honor our contract with you. We did make you promises that we didn’t keep. We did demand you do things that your contract expressly said we wouldn’t. We didn’t befriend you. We left you to fend for yourself. We didn’t embrace you.” These words are sharp arrows in my memory tonight and a different kind of bleeding is happening. My one gift is: I’m not bleeding out and this time, I’m not going to die. At least not tonight.

For the most part, like Kendrick Lamar, I (and others like me) have just taken it and  moved on. I mean, what can you do when people know something is evil and blame you and shun you for saying it out loud? Or, what do you do when someone refuses to pass the peace to you in worship because you decided to tell the truth about you: “No, I didn’t get kicked out of my house; no, I didn’t get fired; no, I’m not crazy. And yes, if you have issues with something here you should say so. ‘Your silence won’t protect you.'” What do you say when people insist that you didn’t give the institution a “chance,” even though you gave it four years while you were bleeding to death?

And it’s harder still when colleagues from other institutions who’ve been abused or maligned as much or more than you decide to join the chorus because they’re afraid of being kicked off their particular plantation, afraid that my ‘insolence’ will rub off on them. What do you do when they start writing a narrative about your life that is so far from your reality as to be laughable?

Yes, I walked away. A black woman tenured in America and I walked away to save my life. And for that salvific act, it is possible I may never teach again in a religious institution because truth-telling when you’re bleeding out is anathema.

My friend and I have been processing some of my experiences again for the first time in a long time today. I’m raw. So Macklemore’s private tweet to Lamar hit that exposed nerve like the sharpest knives. This time I decided to say, “OUCH!!!!

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Open Letter to Presiding Bishop-Elect Joseph W. Walker III and the “By Invitation Only” Attendees of the Inaugural Meeting of the SHIFT

On Monday, December 9, someone forwarded me a post on Facebook about an initiative by the Bishop-Elect of the Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship. I read all of it and was disturbed. I posted about it on WomanPreach! Inc.’s Facebook page. People asked whether I would respond further. I pondered it and decided, “Yes.” And then, my response became OUR response, taking on a life of its own. I appreciate the people who signed this letter and the people who wished they could have. This is what justice-making and beloved faith community-building look like to me–a group of people from the church, not all whom would agree with each other about everything, but who know that the table of God is expansive and who know that it takes all of us to change the world for good. I’m glad to be on the journey with you all (and the many unnamed and unsigned people not reflected on this post).

December 12, 2013

Open Letter to Presiding Bishop-Elect Joseph W. Walker III and the “By Invitation Only” Attendees of the Inaugural Meeting of the SHIFT

Brothers,

How an initiative begins significantly affects how it goes forward.

We read with interest the well-crafted December 9 press release of the coming “SHIFT,” a new initiative spearheaded by Rev. Joseph W. Walker III, Presiding Bishop-Elect of the Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship. We paid special attention to the quotations and looked at the pictures. What a curious title: “Rebranding in the body of Christ: The Ultimate Leader Shift.”

As we read the letter, we became increasingly more disturbed and troubled. Although our first response was “no women were in the room,” in fact our concerns are deeper. It was just sinful and wrongheaded for a group of men to gather without active, real participation of women. We want to be clear about what disturbs us in this moment. Generally, we ignore lists of “100 most influential,” “10 best preachers,” etc.—how could we know who are the 10 best preachers, given all the powerful preachers who will never have a stage? So we read “chosen ones” and “greatest movement” with a grain of salt. But if those gathered intended to communicate an inclusive, progressive, dynamic, forward thinking agenda, your images and rhetoric failed you.

The post-letter from Bishop Walker—apparently written in response to comments made about the absence of women—said “a number of women who were invited… many were unable to attend” (though there were NONE present). We are hard-pressed to believe that all those busy men could come to the SHIFT meeting, but not one woman was available at the time. Quite frankly, if scheduling the meeting proved to be that problematic for women only, then one would be forced to rethink its planning strategies and organization. In the interest of being in solidarity with your womanist sister clergy, if this initiative really intended to be “new,” “progressive,” and “bold,” we think our Womanist/Black Feminist allies in the photo ought have refused to meet or release anything without a critical mass of sister leaders present, not as tokens, but as full participants. If there were men in that room who were in fact appalled by the lack of female representation because they did not know beforehand who would attend, we would hope that our brother allies would publicly declare their disappointment that a meeting with no women present was not rescheduled.

That’s what solidarity and ally-ship look like.

We’ve been chastened not to call black male church leaders out in public. We’ve been told that we have misunderstood. The rising bishop responded in his follow-up letter in what he called “a teaching moment” that we should “ask questions” rather than assume, presumably to correct his errant critics. We say that the gathered brotherhood of clergy should make their commitments clearer. What exactly do they hope to accomplish on behalf of the church? Does it matter to anyone other than women that women are invisible in a gathering of putatively this import? The Bishop’s letter read like a justification for male privilege. The usually “invisible cloak” of arrogance and male-only leadership was visible. All the rhetoric sounded like everything we’ve ever heard from male-dominated meetings.

As Womanists-Feminists-preachers-scholars-activists our responses come from several places. We are not making assumptions. Your press release and its attending images speak volumes. You are not interested in iconoclastically breaking from tradition. You’ve made clear that even if women were invited their insight, input, or wisdom was not considered significant enough for the group to wait. Indeed, the notion that women have to be “included” is itself a male privilege power move. Surely, you are aware that most black churches are comprised of as much as 80% female membership. We also know that women do the majority of the work of the church, without whose labor the organization and mission would fail. To be crystal clear, women’s gifts and capacities in all aspects of church leadership are as critical to the survival, relevance and progression of the church as men’s. Are women not already included in God’s plans?

You’ve communicated—loudly—that (male) “Generals” would strategize and tell all the foot soldiers what to do. A clear inference one gets from your invitation to meet is that God only calls “Generals” who are notorious and already “celebrity” preachers, i.e., those considered “important” and “special” people. Only those with thousands of members know anything about impact or leadership. We understand. That presumption makes sense in an entrepreneurial understanding of the church, where faithfulness is measured only in dollars and size. It smacks of religious elitism. What could an inner-city pastor with only a few members who’s faced gangs and helped people who are poor and struggling to thrive possibly have to offer? You’ve communicated that the hierarchical, “Fathers-know-best,” male-centric table works for you and you’ll scoot over and cram in a couple more of some you deem “worthy.” It is presumptuous and ill thought-out.

We will take you at your word that you didn’t intend to communicate most of the above, if you’ll take our word that’s how many people who care equally about the future of the church received it.

Intent and impact are two very different things. Be clear. Images matter. Rhetoric matters.

In this climate in which the black church finds itself on the brink of becoming irrelevant in the public’s eyes and where black preachers are portrayed on TV as money-grubbing pimps in the pulpit, it would seem that preachers serious about redeeming the times and restoring the reputation of the black church would be committed to justice that reflects genuine shared leadership with women. More than 27 years ago, Rev. Prathia Hall challenged the black Baptist Church on its rampant patronizing exclusion of women, and we find ourselves having to do the same. Dr. Renita Weems once asked, “What will it mean in the history of the church if record droves of women experience and accept their call and we go on with business as usual?” By your omission, you dishonor the legacy, ministry and lives of the biblical general Deborah and prophet Huldah; the church house leader Chloe; and deacon Phoebe and co-workers in the gospel Euodia and Syntyche. You dishonor the work and ministry of women such as Jarena Lee, Septima Clark, Ella P. Mitchell, Brenda Piper Little, Shirley Prince, and Bishop Barbara Harris, and countless of notable and unnamed others.

The challenge with critiquing SHIFT and movements that exclude more of God’s people than they include is that onlookers immediately think it’s personal. Religious male-centered leadership is “normal” and “sacred” and any attempt to question it is deemed perverse or personal. Our call is not for women to have access to patriarchal power, but that we all work together to create new, healthier, more humane—and therefore more godly—systems. We ask you to consider, not only those at the table you’ve spread, but those who are not present. We believe such consideration is central to the ministry of Christ. Women are invisible at the table, but so are many others, including, self-identified same-gender loving Christians. As you consider what or who has their feet on the necks of those you want to liberate, consider whose necks your feet may be holding down. Self-reflection and self-critique are deeply important in justice work.

In response to your invitation for dialogue, here are a few questions to get the dialogue going: How do leaders who claim to fight for justice not know that sexism—excluding women or only including them as afterthoughts—is just as vile and sinful as racism and that it takes intentionality to transform, if in fact you intend to do so? How do self-proclaimed Womanist allies not include women and men who are Womanists and/or Black Feminists in the shaping of vision? Womanist/Black Feminists are not concerned only with the “inclusion” of women in public religious life. That’s about numbers. As people of faith, committed to the cause of radical inclusion, justice and love, we would be remiss in our integrity and derelict in our respective vocations, if we did not speak to injustices and oppressions as evidenced by this introduction of your initiative. We are interested in vision and shared influence and the building of the Commonwealth of God, beloved communities where everyone is valued, heard, protected, and helped to thrive, even if we disagree with them on a number of fronts. Jesus modeled this expansive community best and thus was persecuted for it by self-styled religious movers and shakers of his day.

One last point. You can understand, can’t you, why talk about “core family values” by a fraternity of male preachers raises concern for many of us? We have seen from this last election cycle what happens to women, poor families, and same-gender loving people when right-wing conservatives draft laws and draw up policies in the name of God and family values. Is SHIFT an initiative of black men merely reflecting the same toxic politics and policies? In other words, who is permitted to sit at the table and to fully participate as self-possessed people? Are single people okay as single, or are they people who need to get married? What about single people who’ve adopted children and built families on the village model—a very African approach to family? Is there room for LGBTQ families already among your ranks, or is yours a movement bent on silencing, demonizing, or maligning them? Is there enough emotional, theological, and intellectual bandwidth within the organization to partner for social change with people with whom you don’t agree? I wonder what would happen if you thought Dream Defenders, New Black Man (in Exile), Moral Monday activists or Black Youth Project members, leaders of The Fellowship of Affirming Ministries, for example, were just as important collaborating partners FROM THE BEGINNING?

Bishop Walker noted that women’s full inclusion is a key priority. If so, one social justice organizer said, “If you say it’s for ‘us,’ don’t do it without us.” A noted activist once said that if you’re comfortable with everyone in the room, you’re not leading a revolution.

Finally, you may ask: “What do you want to happen?”

We want this group to commit that all future SHIFT meetings will include women religious leaders around the table, clergy and lay, pastors and academics—the presence of women whose voices you admit are critical and crucial to participating with male religious leaders in redeeming the times and redeeming the future of the black church.

We want members of the group to publicly acknowledge that, though you may not have intended the slight, this first gathering was sinful and flawed by these exclusions. If this exclusion was not the intended message, take a good faith opportunity to correct that error.

We raise these concerns and questions because it is faithful and just to do so. As catalyst for this letter, Dr. Valerie Bridgeman, along with any number of the undersigned, is willing to be in an open dialogue with Bishop-Elect Walker and any of those in that first meeting.

In the Struggle and in the Spirit,

Rev. Valerie Bridgeman, Ph.D. Biblical and Homiletics Scholar President & CEO of WomanPreach! Inc. Board of Trustees, Samuel DeWitt Proctor Conference  *  Dr. Iva E. Carruthers General Secretary Samuel DeWitt Proctor Conference  *  Renita J. Weems, Ph.D. Biblical Scholar Nashville, TN  *  Rev. Carolyn Ann Knight The Seminary Without Walls Smyrna, Georgia Bishop  *  Yvette Flunder Presiding Prelate, The Fellowship of Affirming Ministries Pastor, City of Refuge San Francisco, CA  *  Rev. Leslie D. Callahan, Ph.D. Pastor, St. Paul’s Baptist Church Philadelphia, PA * Jaha Zainabu, Poet  *  Rev. Maisha I. K. Handy, Ph.D. Pastor, Rize Community Church Associate Provost Interdenominational Theological Center  *  Robert Hoggard, Founder & President American Baptist College Affiliate of S.C.L.C  *  Matthew Wesley Williams, Lithonia, GA  *  Rev. Donna M. Vanhook, Burlington, NC  *  Rev. Marsha Foster Boyd, PhD, Englewood OH  *  Brittney C. Cooper, Ph.D., Departments of Women’s & Gender Studies & Africana Studies Rutgers University  *  Rev. Dr. Jeremiah Wright Board of Trustees, Samuel DeWitt Proctor Conference  *  Myia Williams-Sanders  *  Rev. Martin L. Espinosa, Senior Pastor, Ray of Hope Community Church, Nashville, TN  *  Rev. Vivian Nixon, CEO, College and Community Fellowship & Founder, Education Inside Out Coalition  *  J.T. Thomas, Cleveland, OH  *  Rev. Dr. Gary V. Simpson, Senior Pastor, The Concord Baptist Church of Christ, Brooklyn NY & Associate Professor of Homiletics, Drew Theological Seminary  *  Keri Day, PhD, Professor of Ethics & Director of Black Church Studies, Brite Divinity School  *  Rev Toni DiPina, Pastor, Rockdale Congregational Church Northbridge, MA  *  Rashad D. Grove  *  Rev. Carla A. Jones  *  Jeralyn B. Major  *  Pamela R. Lightsey, PhD, Boston University School of Theology  *  Rev. Asa J Lee, Arlington, VA  *  Rev. Carolyn Hutchinson, Temple Hills, MD  *  Rev. Rashad D. 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Quincy James Rineheart, M.Div., S.T.M.  *  Rev. Dawnn M. Brumfield, Associate Pastor, Urban Village Church Chicago, IL  *  Ashon Crawley  *  Pastor Michelle E. Freeman, M.Div., Houston, TX Min.  *  L. Proverbs Briggs, Atlanta, GA  *  Rev. Dollie Howell Pankey, MACM, MTS, Pastor, St. James Christian Methodist Episcopal Church, Jasper, AL  *  Rev. Catharine A. Cummings, M.Div., Pastor, Wesley UMC Church, Springfield, MA  *  Rev. Earle J. Fisher, M.Div., Senior Pastor, Abyssinian Baptist Church (Memphis) & Adjunct Instructor of Contemporary Theology at Rhodes College  *  Rev. D.r Mitzi J. Smith, Ph.D  *  Charles Bowie, Ph.D  *  Rev. Carla Patterson, Associate Minister, Friendship Missionary Baptist Church, Charlotte, NC  *  Rev. Vanessa M. Brown  *  Karlene Griffiths Sekou, President Dignidad International, Cambridge, MA  *  Rev. Felicia Y. Thomas  *  Rev. Carla Patterson  *  Rev. Alisha Lola Jones, M.Div., CEO & Founder InSight Initiative, Inc.  *  Rev. Margaret Aymer, Ph. D., Associate Professor, Interdenominational Theological Center  *  Min. Brenda Summerville, M.Div. Chicago, IL  *  Roger A. Sneed, Ph.D., Associate Professor of Religion Furman University  *  Rev. Andre E. Johnson, PhD., Pastor, Gifts of Life Ministries, Memphis, TN & Dr. James L Netters Associate Professor of Rhetoric & Religion and African American Studies, Memphis Theological Seminary  *  Rev. Althea Bailey  *  Rev. Yvette A. Assem, M.Div., Womanist Missionary Language of the Black Woman’s Touch  *  Min. Robin P. Sessoms, M.Div.  *  Rev. Dorothy Harris, J.D., Pastor, Unity Fellowship Church of Columbia (Maryland)  *  Carla E. Banks  *  Jamall Andrew Calloway, S.T.M., Associate Minister Mt. Aery Baptist Church, Bridgeport, CT  *  Rev. Benjamin Ledell Reynolds, PhD student, Chicago Theological Seminary  *  Fallon Wilson, M.A., ABD, University of Chicago  *  Rev. Karyn Carlo, PhD  *  Rev. Dr. Cheryl Townsend Gilkes, Assistant Pastor for Special Projects Union Baptist Church, Cambridge, Massachusetts & John D. and Catherine T. MacArthur Professor Colby College, Waterville, Maine  *  Rev. Charisse R. Tucker, Minister of Administration, St. Paul’s Baptist Church, Philadelphia, PA  *  Terry T. Hocker, Sr. Pastor/Founder, Bound By Truth And Love Ministries, Cincinnati, OH  *  Rev. Jamie D. Hawley, Chaplain University of Michigan  *  Rev. Kendal Brown, Dean of Students, Lancaster Theological Seminary  *  Rev. Melva L. Sampson  *  M. Brandon McCormack, Ph.D., Assistant Professor Departments of Pan-African Studies and Humanities (Religious Studies), University of Louisville  *  Charlotte Caldwell  *  Rev. Brian Foulks, Lexington, SC  *  Lisa Ann Anderson  *  Obery M. Hendricks, Jr., Ph.D., Professor, Biblical Interpretation New York Theological Seminary & Visiting Scholar of Religion & African American Studies, Columbia University  *  Min. Hazel M. Cherry, Oakland, CA, M.Div. Candidate, Howard University School of Divinity  *  Bishop Andre L. Jackson, Founding Pastor, New Vision Full Gospel Baptist Church, East Orange, NJ, MA in Practical Theology/ M.Ed Candidate Regent University, VA  *  Rev Candace Lewis, United Methodist clergy  *  Rev. JoAnne Marie Terrell, PhD, Associate Professor of Ethics, Theology, and the Arts, Chicago Theological Seminary  *  Rev. Dianna N. Watkins-Dickerson, Chaplain, USAF  *  Larry T. Crudup, M.Div. Candidate, Perkins School of Theology  *  Rev. Rosalyn R. Nichols, D.Min. Organizing Pastor, Freedom’s Chapel Christian Church (DOC) Memphis, TN  *  Min. Guy Sebastian Johnson, Leesburg, VA, M.Div. Candidate, Lancaster Theological Seminary * EL Kornegay Jr., Ph.D., CEO/Founder The Baldwin~Delaney Institute, Chicago, IL  *  Liz S. Alexander, Seminarian, Chicago, IL * Candice M. Benbow, Durham, NC  *  Rev. Toni Dunbar, D.Min., Associate Pastor & Dean, City of Refuge United Church of Christ, Oakland, CA; Executive Director, YA Flunder Foundation; and Founder & Director, Refuge Leadership Development Institute  *  Rev. Gwen Thomas, M. Ed., Author, LGBT activist, & Huffington Post blogger  *  The Rev. Canon Terence Alexander Lee, Rector, St. Gabriel’s Episcopal Church, Hollis, NY  *  Rev. W. Jeffrey Campbell, Executive Director, Hudson Pride Connections Center, Jersey City, NJ  *  Evan R. Bunch * Pastor Genetta Y Hatcher, Detroit, Michigan  *  The Rev. Fr. Marcus G. Halley, Associate Priest, St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church – Kansas City, MO  *  Rev. Dr. MarQuita Carmichael Burton  *  Rev. Don Darius Butler, Pastor, Tabernacle Community Baptist Church Milwaukee, WI * Rev. Raphael G. Warnock, Ph.D., The Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church, Atlanta, GA  *  Dr. Tony McNeill, DWS, Director of Worship & The Arts, The Historic Ebenezer Baptist Church, Atlanta, GA  *  Rev. William I. Spencer  *  Min. Davica Williams-Warren, M.Div., Miami, FL  *  Rev. Osagyefo Sekou, Pastor for Formation and Justice, The First Baptist Church in Jamaica Plain (Boston, MA)  *  Rev. Dorian Mendez-Vaz, President & Founder, Within Her Reach, Inc.  *  Min. Ryan Hawthorne, M.Div., Princeton Theological Seminary  *  Rev. Kimberly Henderson Philadelphia, PA * Rev. Raedorah C. Stewart, MA, Preacher, Poet, Mother of a Son  *  Rev. T. Renée Crutcher, Founder/President, Sankofa Ministries & Tellin’ Our Story Publishing, Inc. Atlanta, GA  *  Min. Kamilah Hall Sharp, J.D., M. Div. Candidate, Memphis Theological Seminary  *  Bishop Dwayne D. Royster, Senior Pastor, Living Water United Church of Christ & General Secretary, Higher Ground Christian Fellowship International  *  Dr. Donique McIntosh, Associate Pastor, Namaste’ United Church of Christ  *  Minister Kelli X, M.Div., Madison, TN  *  Rev. Sharon L. Bowers UMC Pastor, ITC Alumna  *  Rev. James A. Hardaway, M.Div., MACE, Pastor, Mount Gilead AME Church, Columbus, GA  *  Rev. Stephanie Buckhanon Crowder, Ph.D.  *  Keith Crawford, Jr.  *   Dr. Irie Lynne Session, Senior Pastor The Avenue – Warren Avenue Christian Church | Dallas, Texas MDiv. Black Church Studies Concentration | Brite Divinity School DMin. Transformative Leadership & Prophetic Preaching | Colgate Rochester Crozer Divinity School  *  Rev. Dionne P. Boissiere, M.Div., Consultant for WomanPreach! Inc. & Director, Women’s Center @ New York Theological Seminary  *  Rev. Stephanie A. Duzant, MSW, Hollis, Queens NYC  *  Min. Louis J. Mitchell, South Congregational Church, Springfield, MA  *  Min. Rhonda White-Warner, M.Div., D.Min. Candidate, SF Theological Seminary & Founder Alabaster Jar Ministries, Oakland, CA  *  Toby D. Sanders, Pastor, Beloved Community  *  Rev. Reginald W. Williams, Jr. Pastor, First Baptist Church of University Park, University Park, IL  *  Bishop John Selders, Pastor, Amistad UCC & Bishop Presider Interdenominational Conference of Liberation Congregations and Ministries  *  Rev. Marilyn E. Thornton, Director/Campus Minister, The Wesley Foundation at Fisk University, Nashville, TN  *  Rev. Wm. Jermaine Richardson  *  Dr. Safiyah Fosua, Assistant Professor, Congregational Worship, Wesley Seminary @ IWU  *  Rev. Frank A Thomas, Ph.D. Director of the Academy of Preaching and Celebration & The Nettie Sweeney and Hugh T. Miller Professor of Homiletics, Christian Theological Seminary  *  Min. Kymberly McNair, Social Justice Coordinator, Antioch Baptist Church, Bedford Hills, NY  *  Dr. Teresa Fry Brown, Director, Black Church Studies Program & Professor of Homiletics, Emory University, Atlanta, GA  *  Rev. Dr. Yolanda Pierce, Director, Black Church Studies, Princeton Theological Seminary  *  Dr. Sharon Ellis Davis, Director of the Center for African American Ministries & Black Church Studies & Adjunct Professor, McCormick Theological Seminary, Chicago, IL & UCC Pastor  *  Rev. Kimberly G. Walker, Pastor, Village of Hope CME Church, Stone Mountain, GA  *  Joshua Crutchfield, Nashville, TN  *  Rev. Dr. Judy Cummings, New Covenant Christian Church, Nashville, TN  *  Rev. Dominique C. Atchison, M.Div., Associate Minister, Brown Memorial Baptist Church & Sacred Conversations on Race Coordinator, Connecticut Conference UCC  *  Rev. Chaka S. Holley, MSW, M. Div.  *  Dr. Lynne S. Darden, Assistant Professor, New Testament, Interdenominational Theological Seminary, Atlanta, GA  *  Rev. Dr. Judy D. Cummings, Senior Pastor,  New Covenant Christian Church, Nashville, TN  * Rev. Bianca Davis, M.Div., Associate Pastor of Children, Youth, & Young Adults, God Can Ministries, UCC  * Rev. 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Answering Facebook Inboxes: Me, God, and Same-Sex Anything…

Several people sent me inbox messages chiding me about my postings on Facebook regarding same-sex marriage and “gay special interests” questions. The gist of what they said: “you’re not interested in a debate, you’re just advancing an ungodly gay agenda.”

Hmmmmm… where to start?

First: How right you are that I am not interested in a debate. While I posted the words of learned biblical scholars (Renita Weems comes to mind), I don’t feel like trotting out the bible badminton where we just volley scriptures back and forth between one another. I find it particularly offensive for youngsters to quote scriptures at me like I (Hebrew bible scholar with a cognate degree in NT) have never read them. Really? Your mind is set. Frankly, so is mine. I didn’t just arrive here 53 years later. So, no. I’m not interested in a debate. I would be interested in a conversation, but I’m not even sure that’s productive. You think being gay is like having to lose weight (all you need is a good diet and will power). I think it’s like being 4’10 (I can’t get taller no matter how hard I try) [nod to OT scholar Julia M. O’Brien for this example].

Second: yes, I am pushing the “special interest” agenda of my LGBTQ friends, family, Christian members. You insist on calling it “special interest” as if  civil rights for people are not of special interest ( and as if “Civil Rights” = Black American Rights and no other rights). I’ll join you in calling them “special interests.” I am especially interested in us doing civically right by a minority portion of our population. Our constitution presumably is designed to protect the rights of people the majority would deny. And the question about same-sex marriage is a civil question, even if it is a religious one for some people as well.

Screaming that there is a conspiracy to take down “traditional marriage” is so unconvincing to me. If you want “traditional marriage” to be protected, protect yours and keep the vows you made to your friends when you stood with them at their wedding and said you would uphold them and support them in their vows. It’s not my fault that you can’t see the same “scriptural” argumentation (not even argument, just the way the bible is used) that was used by white slavers against freedom for slaves, by men against rights for women, by white people against marriage between people from different ethnic/racial backgrounds, for example, is the same argumentation you have employed. I heard a black pastor say, “I would vote with the klan if it means putting down this ‘gay agenda.'” I thought, “Well you just did.”

Third: we will just disagree about whether my stance is ungodly. That’s all. I find it interesting that we can disagree on the nature of salvation, on baptism, on what happens at the Table, and you’ll still believe I’m Christian, invite me to preach, etc. Salvation, Baptism, Communion–we can disagree. But not about this question…. Pause. Consider.

It is not that I believe thinking religious people cannot disagree. We do it all the time. It’s called the marketplace of ideas. And, presumably, up here on “Mars Hill,” the ideas with the most theological, ethical, political capital will win the day. I “evolved” to my position. I really did. (Bishop Yvette Flunder is right. People get here through relationships with others, not through debating). And, I think I’m on the right side of this “special interest” in every way, and on the right side of history. And while it may not seem like it to you, I do respect your right to disagree with me. The difference between us is I won’t relegate YOU to hell, to heresy, to… whatever. I will reiterate my own strongly-held conviction: If I am wrong, I will gladly go to hell loving God and loving people.